{"id":8413,"date":"2014-07-20T20:43:57","date_gmt":"2014-07-21T01:43:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/?p=8413"},"modified":"2014-07-20T20:43:57","modified_gmt":"2014-07-21T01:43:57","slug":"book-review-crazy-busy","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/?p=8413","title":{"rendered":"Book Review: Crazy Busy"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Crazy-Busy-Mercifully-Really-Problem\/dp\/1433533383\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8414\" alt=\"DeYoung\" src=\"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/DeYoung.jpg\" width=\"694\" height=\"1036\" srcset=\"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/DeYoung.jpg 694w, https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/DeYoung-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/07\/DeYoung-685x1024.jpg 685w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 694px) 100vw, 694px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;God gives us Sabbath as a gift; it\u2019s an island of get-to in a sea of have-to. \u00a0He also offers us Sabbath as a test; it\u2019s an opportunity to trust God\u2019s work more than our own.&#8221;<\/em> Kevin DeYoung, <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Crazy-Busy-Mercifully-Really-Problem\/dp\/1433533383\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Crazy Busy<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>I just came inside from playing Uno for an hour with my husband and daughter. \u00a0That is not a normal evening around the Strange house&#8230;but it is certainly one of my favorite parts of summer&#8230;lazy evenings and long weekends! \u00a0This past weekend, Clint planned a really fun family getaway to a resort on the other side of Atlanta. \u00a0We had a wonderful time Friday afternoon and evening just spending time together as a family and having a lot of fun. \u00a0When we woke up Saturday morning, it was pouring down rain and the forecast showed steady rain the rest of Saturday and all of Sunday&#8230;all of our remaining time at the resort. \u00a0I should mention that the main piece of this resort is a waterpark, their lake, and an awesome pool&#8230;basically no indoor options at all. \u00a0We were really looking forward to this time away, but realized that with an adventurous 5 1\/2 year old and an energetic 19 month old, our best bet was to raincheck the rest of our trip and reschedule for another time. \u00a0We headed home from our restful weekend and immediately began planning what we would &#8220;do&#8221; when we got home. \u00a0We ended up spending the day running errands, working on house projects, and finally falling into bed around 10pm exhausted from a very productive Saturday. \u00a0Our break somehow turned into work. \u00a0Unfortunately that tends to happen more often than not. \u00a0However, I will pull over for a minute to applaud the fact that Clint came up with an awesome surprise for our family and all of us prepared ourselves for a restful and fun break together. \u00a0We will definitely reschedule soon!<\/p>\n<p>As a high school principal, I am blessed to have a lighter schedule in the summer and to enjoy three straight weeks off from work. \u00a0Our family fully embraces this time and we normally head out of town for the majority of the three weeks to hang out on the beach and to enjoy restful time with family and friends. \u00a0This year was one of the best summers for rest as we spent an entire week at the beach. \u00a0Normally we just stretch a long weekend and call that a family vacation. \u00a0This year at the beach, we scheduled Saturday to Saturday. \u00a0I realized that it took me until almost Wednesday&#8230;4 days into our vacation&#8230;before I finally started relaxing. \u00a0I&#8217;m trying to convince Clint that we should go to the beach for the entire 3 weeks next year..just imagine how relaxed I&#8217;d be!<\/p>\n<p>I&#8217;ve seen several friends that have read <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Crazy-Busy-Mercifully-Really-Problem\/dp\/1433533383\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Crazy Busy<\/em><\/a> by Kevin DeYoung and decided it was time to hear what he had to say for myself. \u00a0I read this book in a matter of about an hour and a half&#8230;which was great because my attention span can still handle 90 minutes&#8230;that was a celebration in and of itself! \u00a0I am grateful to see that DeYoung, a pastor, based his thoughts on Scripture and what God&#8217;s word has to say about creating healthy rhythms for day to day life. \u00a0I highlighted several things while reading and have posted my notes below&#8230;<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>We are here and there and everywhere. \u00a0We are distracted. \u00a0We are preoccupied. \u00a0We can\u2019t focus on the task in front of us. \u00a0We don\u2019t follow through. \u00a0We don\u2019t keep our commitments. \u00a0We are so busy with a million pursuits that we don\u2019t even notice the most important things slipping away.<\/li>\n<li>There are two realities of the modernized, urbanized, globalized world that most everyone in human history could not fathom: our complexity and our opportunity.<\/li>\n<li>When we are crazy busy, we put our souls at risk.<\/li>\n<li>The first danger is that busyness can ruin our joy.<\/li>\n<li>\u201cMargin is the space between our load and our limits.\u201d \u00a0Richard Swenson, <i>Margin<\/i><\/li>\n<li>When busyness goes after joy, it goes after everyone\u2019s joy.<\/li>\n<li>The second danger is that busyness can rob our hearts.<\/li>\n<li>The third danger is that busyness can cover up the rot in our souls.<\/li>\n<li>The greatest danger with busyness is that there may be greater dangers you never have time to consider.<\/li>\n<li>Our understanding of busyness must start with the one sin that begets so many of our other sins: pride.<\/li>\n<li>I am not the Christ.<\/li>\n<li>There is good news.<\/li>\n<li>Care is not the same as do.<\/li>\n<li>We have different gifts and different callings.<\/li>\n<li>Remember the church.<\/li>\n<li>I can always pray right now.<\/li>\n<li>Jesus didn\u2019t do it all.<\/li>\n<li>Jesus did not float above the fray, untouched by the pressures of normal human existence. \u00a0Our Lord did not sit around listening to hard music all day while the angels brought him heavenly bananas. \u00a0Jesus was tempted in every way just as we are, yet without sin (Hebrews 4:15). \u00a0And that includes the temptation to be sinfully busy.<\/li>\n<li>Truth #1: I must set priorities because I can\u2019t do it all.<\/li>\n<li>\u201c<em>The supply of time is totally inelastic. \u00a0No matter how high the demand, the supply will not go up. \u00a0There is no price for it and no marginal utility curve for it. Moreover, time is totally perishable and cannot be stored. \u00a0Yesterday\u2019s time is gone forever and will never come back. \u00a0Time is, therefore, always in exceedingly short supply.\u201d<\/em> \u00a0Peter Drucker, <i>The Effective Executive<\/i><\/li>\n<li>Truth #2: I must set priorities if I am to serve others most effectively.<\/li>\n<li>Stewarding my time is not about selfishly pursuing only the things I like to do. \u00a0It\u2019s about effectively serving others in the ways I\u2019m best able to serve and in the ways I am most uniquely called to serve.<\/li>\n<li>Setting priorities is an expression of love for others and for God.<\/li>\n<li>Truth #3: I must allow others to set their own priorities.<\/li>\n<li>Whatever overcomes a person, to that he is enslaved. \u00a02 Peter 2:19<\/li>\n<li>Cultivate a healthy suspicion toward technology and \u201cprogress.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Be more thoughtful and understanding in your connectedness with others.<\/li>\n<li>Deliberately use old technology.<\/li>\n<li>Make boundaries, and fight with all your might to protect them.<\/li>\n<li>Bring our Christian theology to bear on these dangers of the digital age.<\/li>\n<li>Because we have a God who chose us in eternity past and looks at a day as a thousand years and a thousand years as a day, we will not be infatuated with the latest fads and trends.<\/li>\n<li>We cannot have meaningful relationships with thousands of people. \u00a0We cannot really know what is going on in the world. \u00a0We cannot be truly here and there at the same time. \u00a0The biggest deception of our digital age may be the lie that says we can be omni-competent, omni-informed, and omni-present. \u00a0We cannot be any of these things. \u00a0We must choose our absence, our inability, and our ignorance\u2014and choose wisely. \u00a0The sooner we embrace this finitude, the sooner we can be free.<\/li>\n<li>God gives us Sabbath as a gift; it\u2019s an island of get-to in a sea of have-to. \u00a0He also offers us Sabbath as a test; it\u2019s an opportunity to trust God\u2019s work more than our own.<\/li>\n<li>We can\u2019t run incessantly and expect to run very well.<\/li>\n<li>We have to schedule time to be unscheduled.<\/li>\n<li>I\u2019m not so important in God\u2019s universe that I can\u2019t afford to rest. \u00a0But my God-given limitations are so real that I can\u2019t afford not to.<\/li>\n<li>The antidote to busyness of soul is not sloth and indifference. \u00a0The antidote is rest, rhythm, death to pride, acceptance of our own finitude, and trust in the providence of God.<\/li>\n<li>Effective love is rarely efficient. \u00a0People take time. \u00a0Relationships are messy. \u00a0If we love others, how can we not be busy and burdened at least some of the time?<\/li>\n<li>To paraphrase Titus 3:3, we live as slaves to various passions and pleasures, passing our days in chaos and envy, hassled by others and hassling one another. \u00a0We are all very busy, but not with what matters most.<\/li>\n<li><em>\u201cI am more and more convinced that what gives a ministry its motivations, perseverance, humility, joy, tenderness, passion, and grace is the devotional life of the one doing ministry. \u00a0When I daily admit how needy I am, daily meditate on the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ, and daily feed on the restorative wisdom of his Word, I am propelled to share with others the grace that I am daily receiving at the hands of my Savior.\u201d<\/em> Paul Tripp, <i>Dangerous Calling<\/i><\/li>\n<li>We won\u2019t say not to more craziness until we can say yes to more Jesus. \u00a0We will keep choosing dinner rolls over the bread of life. \u00a0We will choose the fanfare of the world over the feet of Jesus. \u00a0We will choose busyness over blessing.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &#8220;God gives us Sabbath as a gift; it\u2019s an island of get-to in a sea of have-to. \u00a0He also offers us Sabbath as a test; it\u2019s an opportunity to trust God\u2019s work more than our own.&#8221; Kevin DeYoung, Crazy Busy I just came inside from playing Uno for an hour with my husband and [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,14,35,16,23,28,17,32,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8413","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bible-study","category-book-review","category-creative","category-family","category-generosity","category-integrity","category-leadership","category-marriage","category-truth"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8413","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8413"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8413\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8413"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8413"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8413"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}