{"id":8554,"date":"2014-09-06T09:17:32","date_gmt":"2014-09-06T14:17:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/?p=8554"},"modified":"2014-09-06T09:17:32","modified_gmt":"2014-09-06T14:17:32","slug":"book-review-strength-to-love","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/?p=8554","title":{"rendered":"Book Review: Strength to Love"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Strength-Love-Martin-Luther-King\/dp\/0800697405\" target=\"_blank\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-8555\" alt=\"41Lg9J1ApqL\" src=\"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/41Lg9J1ApqL.jpg\" width=\"339\" height=\"500\" srcset=\"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/41Lg9J1ApqL.jpg 339w, https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2014\/09\/41Lg9J1ApqL-203x300.jpg 203w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 339px) 100vw, 339px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;We must in strength and humility meet hate with love.&#8221;<\/em> Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in <a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Strength-Love-Martin-Luther-King\/dp\/0800697405\" target=\"_blank\"><em>Strength to Love<\/em><\/a>, p. 50<\/p>\n<p><em>&#8220;Hatred and bitterness can never cure the disease of fear; only love can do that. \u00a0Hatred paralyzed life; love releases it. \u00a0Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. \u00a0Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.&#8221;\u00a0<\/em>Dr. King, p. 126<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>I grew up in Memphis, TN. \u00a0There are a ton of things to be proud of having grown up in Memphis&#8230;basketball, barbecue, White Station High School, and of course&#8230;<a href=\"https:\/\/www.facebook.com\/gibsonsdonuts\" target=\"_blank\">Gibson&#8217;s Donuts<\/a>. \u00a0However, one of the first things that always comes to mind when you mention that you are from Memphis is the fact that Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. was assassinated there in April of 1968 because he was making people uncomfortable with his agenda that tried to point people to love others just as Christ loved them. That April day in Memphis has caused my hometown to be divided in a way that is, still to this day, heartbreaking. \u00a0The bullet that ended the life of Dr. King also snuffed out the light of hope for many in Memphis that will probably not be restored until Christ himself returns<\/p>\n<p>This year at <a href=\"http:\/\/www.ncchristian.org\" target=\"_blank\">North Cobb Christian School<\/a>, our theme verse is Matthew 22:39 &#8220;and you shall love your neighbor as yourself.&#8221; \u00a0This is the second greatest commandment after we are told that the greatest commandment is to love the Lord our God with all our heart, soul, and mind (Matthew 22:37). \u00a0It&#8217;s impossible to do the second without doing the first. \u00a0In studying and reading this passage, I&#8217;m drawn to a greater appreciation for diversity in the body of Christ. \u00a0How can we truly love God without fully loving and appreciating all of the people God created? \u00a0God created all of us and those who know Christ should stand together under that banner of love in a unified message of love for others hoping to draw them to Christ by the love they see that we have for one another. \u00a0Sadly that isn&#8217;t happening in most cases. \u00a0We are wasting time and defeating the point of the gospel itself by making rules and regulations that only welcome some and force others to feel like they must stand on the outside looking in. \u00a0That isn&#8217;t at all what Christ had in mind when he &#8220;demonstrated His own love for us in that, while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us.&#8221; (Romans 5:8). \u00a0When Jesus proclaimed &#8220;It is Finished&#8221; on the cross&#8230;that was for all of us.<\/p>\n<p>I found a copy of <em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Strength-Love-Martin-Luther-King\/dp\/0800697405\" target=\"_blank\">Strength to Love<\/a><\/em> by Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. \u00a0 The book is a collection of sermons he delivered over the years and there is a chapter specifically titled &#8220;On Being a Good Neighbor&#8221;. \u00a0This book is not a quick read if you use it as a tool to assess where your heart stands on loving others. \u00a0I highlighted several things while reading and have posted them below. \u00a0I hope you will consider picking up this book and setting it next to Scripture to evaluate how committed you are to truly loving others as Christ has loved us. \u00a0I certainly have not reached that, but I&#8217;m grateful for the way that Dr. King&#8217;s message has pushed me to grow in this area.<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Be ye therefore wise as serpents, and harmless as doves. \u00a0Matthew 10:16<\/li>\n<li>It is pretty difficult to imagine a single person having, simultaneously, the characteristics of the serpent and the dove, but this is what Jesus expects. \u00a0We must combine the toughness of the serpent and the softness of the dove, a tough mind and a tender heart.<\/li>\n<li>Soft mindedness often invades religion.<\/li>\n<li>There is little hope for us until we become tough minded enough to break loose from the shackles of prejudice, half-truths, and downright ignorance. \u00a0The shape of the world today does not permit us the luxury of soft mindedness. \u00a0A nation or a civilization that continues to produce soft-minded men purchases its own spiritual death on an installment plan.<\/li>\n<li>The greatness of our God lies in the fact that he is both tough minded and tenderhearted. \u00a0He has qualities both of austerity and of gentleness. \u00a0The Bible, always clear in stressing both attributes of God, expresses his tough mindedness in his justice\u00a0and wrath and his tenderheartedness in his love and grace. \u00a0God has two outstretched arms. \u00a0One is strong enough to surround us with justice, and one is gentle enough to embrace us with grace. \u00a0On the one hand, God is a God of justice who punished Israel for her wayward deeds, and on the other hand, he is a forgiving father whose heart was filled with unutterable joy when the prodigal son returned home.<\/li>\n<li>When days grow dark and nights grow dreary, we can be thankful that our God combines in his nature a creative synthesis of love and justice that will lead us\u00a0through life\u2019s dark valleys and into sunlit pathways of hope and fulfillment.<\/li>\n<li>Nowhere is the tragic tendency to conform more evident than in the church, an institution that has\u00a0often served to crystallize, conserve, and even bless the patterns of majority opinion.<\/li>\n<li>If the church of Jesus Christ is to regain once more its power, message, and authentic ring, it must conform only to the demands of the gospel.<\/li>\n<li>Christianity has always insisted that the cross we bear precedes the crown we\u00a0wear. \u00a0To be a Christian, one must take up his cross, with all of its difficulties and agonizing and tragedy-packed content, and carry it until that very cross leaves its marks upon us and redeems us to that more excellent way that comes only through suffering.<\/li>\n<li>And who is my neighbor? Luke 10:29<\/li>\n<li>What constituted the\u00a0goodness of the good Samaritan? \u00a0Why will he always be an inspiring paragon of neighborly virtue? \u00a0It seems to me that this man\u2019s\u00a0goodness may be described in one word\u2014altruism. \u00a0The good Samaritan was altruistic to the core. \u00a0What is altruism? \u00a0The dictionary defines\u00a0altruism as\u00a0\u201cregard for, and devotion to, the interest of others.\u201d \u00a0The Samaritan was good because he made concern for others the first law of his life.<\/li>\n<li>Too seldom do we see people in their true humanness. \u00a0We see men as Jews or Gentiles, Catholics, or Protestants, Chinese or American, Negroes or whites. \u00a0We fail to think of them as fellow human beings made from\u00a0the same basic stuff as we, molded in the same divine image. \u00a0The priest and the Levite saw only a bleeding body, not a human being like themselves. \u00a0But the good Samaritan will always remind us to remove the cataracts of provincialism from our spiritual eyes and see men as men.<\/li>\n<li>The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of\u00a0comfort and\u00a0convenience but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy. \u00a0The true neighbor will risk his position, his prestige, and even his life for the\u00a0welfare of others. \u00a0In dangerous valleys and hazardous pathways, he will lift some bruised and beaten brother to a higher and more noble life.<\/li>\n<li>In our quest to make neighborly love a reality, we have, in addition to the inspiring example of the good Samaritan, the magnanimous life of our Christ to guide us. \u00a0His altruism was universal, for he thought of all men, even publicans and sinners, as brothers. \u00a0His altruism was\u00a0dangerous, for he willingly traveled hazardous roads in a cause he knew was right. \u00a0His altruism was excessive, for he chose to die on Calvary, history\u2019s most magnificent expression of obedience to the unenforceable.<\/li>\n<li>Then said Jesus, Father, forgive them; for they know not what they do. \u00a0Luke 23:34<\/li>\n<li>Jesus eloquently affirmed from the cross a higher law. \u00a0He knew that the old eye-for-eye philosophy would leave everyone blind. \u00a0He did not seek to overcome evil with evil. \u00a0He overcame evil with good. \u00a0Although crucified by hate, he responded with aggressive love. \u00a0What a magnificent lesson! \u00a0Generations will rise and fall; men will continue to worship with god of revenge and bow before the altar of retaliation; but ever and again this noble lesson of Calvary will be a nagging reminder that only goodness can drive out evil and only love can conquer hate.<\/li>\n<li>Returning hate for hate multiplies hate, adding\u00a0deeper darkness to\u00a0alight already devoid of stars. \u00a0Darkness cannot drive out darkness; only light can do that. \u00a0Hate cannot drive out hate; only love can do that. \u00a0Hate multiplies hate, violence multiplies violence, and toughness multiplies toughness in a descending spiral of destruction. \u00a0So when Jesus says\u00a0\u201cLove your enemies,\u201d \u00a0he is setting forth a profound and ultimately inescapable admonition. \u00a0Have we not come to such an impasse in the modern world that we must love our enemies\u2014or else? \u00a0The chain\u00a0reaction of evil\u2014hate begetting hate, wars producing more wars\u2014must be broken, or we shall be plunged into the dark abyss of annihilation.<\/li>\n<li>There will be no permanent solution to the race problem until oppressed men develop the capacity to love their enemies. \u00a0The darkness of racial injustice will be dispelled only by the light of forgiving love.<\/li>\n<li>We must in strength and humility meet hate with love.<\/li>\n<li>Love is the most durable power in the world. \u00a0This creative force, so beautifully exemplified in the life of our Christ, is the most potent instrument available in mankind\u2019s quest for peace and security. \u00a0Napoleon Bonaparte, the great military genius,\u00a0looking back over his years of conquest, is reported to have said:\u00a0\u201cAlexander, Caesar, Charlemagne,\u00a0and I\u00a0have built great empires. \u00a0But upon what did they depend? \u00a0They depended on force. \u00a0But centuries ago Jesus started an empire that was built on love, and even to this day millions will die for him.\u201d<\/li>\n<li>Nothing in wealth is inherently vicious, and\u00a0nothing in poverty is inherently virtuous.<\/li>\n<li>When our days become dreary with low-hovering clouds and our nights become darker than a thousand midnights, let us remember that there is a great benign Power in the\u00a0universe whose name is God, and he is able to\u00a0make \u00a0way out of no way, and transform dark yesterdays into bright tomorrow.<\/li>\n<li>Hatred and bitterness can never cure the disease of fear; only love can do that. \u00a0Hatred paralyzed life; love releases it. \u00a0Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. \u00a0Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>&nbsp; &#8220;We must in strength and humility meet hate with love.&#8221; Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. in Strength to Love, p. 50 &#8220;Hatred and bitterness can never cure the disease of fear; only love can do that. \u00a0Hatred paralyzed life; love releases it. \u00a0Hatred confuses life; love harmonizes it. \u00a0Hatred darkens life; love illumines it.&#8221;\u00a0Dr. [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,14,16,28,17,18,34],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-8554","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-bible-study","category-book-review","category-family","category-integrity","category-leadership","category-north-cobb-christian","category-truth"],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8554","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/2"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=8554"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/8554\/revisions"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=8554"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=8554"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/meganstrange.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=8554"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}